man's bottom line
puzzled and perplexed (addressed to four-year-old men and women)
40-year-old is a helpless age boundaries, it is a rose last spring, people nostalgic reverie. Once the youth has gradually moved away from us, appearance, physical, all aspects of the body occurs after the age of 40 more major changes, this time we are no longer the same time as the youth Ai own profligate youth, to be more to maintain good care of their own state.
written four-year-old woman's advice
1. Four-year-old woman, children not yet grown up, her husband has blossomed. This is a woman so that the most anxious, confused age, a woman's life is the most sensitive and critical transition. To start the spiritual cultivation, to be gentle tone, eyes soft, elegant demeanor, calm demeanor.
2. Four-year-old woman, without too much care about the business side. Have a copy of your favorite, willing to work hard can be serious. To the workplace if not fight to the bitter with men the same age, it is tantamount to a QQ car towards the F1 circuit.
3. Four-year-old woman, to have one or two years after the baptism, belief can be pinned items. Whether it is ancestral or keepsake tokens of love, tears of sadness when you can put it in hand, when you are helpless when it go hand in hand.
4. Four-year-old woman, has been traveling the equivalent of a 140,000 km of vehicle. Be sure to do a physical examination every six months, early detection, such as breast, ovarian, endocrine system diseases.
5. Four-year-old woman, to lose calcium supplement and nutrition, middle-aged women, seventy percent have symptoms of different types of osteoporosis. The chest can be down, the skin can relax, but remember: the bone must be strong. This will give you five or six years old when the endless benefits.
6. Four-year-old woman, no matter how much some of their own money to possession, on personal secret place to prepare for contingencies. Former lover, or if it was in trouble again one day away from home without her husband for money.
7. Four-year-old woman, can not in charge of economic power, but to understand the direction a little money, with particular attention to the man's wallet. For example, why the regular evening meetings of the husband who is always three or five hundred small, continuous overtime from time to time where her husband has
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8. Four-year-old woman, hair tied back to the collar to improve, tighten the waistband, skirt lower. Even if the body is still intact and need somewhere, deliberately showing off. Keep in mind that figure at this age in exchange for something you have been very limited.
9. Four-year-old woman, not to whitewash too much, although the cover cosmetic aspects of these powerful, but it will destroy you that after years of skin. Often recommended to add water to relieve the texture, the use of moisturizing and firming skin care products like interest only extend tolerance Yen.
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10. Four-year-old woman, not gorgeously dressed, do not confuse the flirtatious, not with your enemies (2, 3-year-old woman) to go to battle. They have their youth and vitality, you have your deposition and self-cultivation. Sun and Moon conversion, country rich in beauty, which was not defy the laws of nature.
11. four-year-old woman, not to silence the to save the princess. Four decades is also wearing a glass slipper broke, pumpkin carriage to sit for four years has collapsed, with its fantasy of love with the small white face, running his own marriage as seriously.
12. four-year-old woman, and men should avoid spending time at the mahjong table, there is not only unhealthy, or a hotbed of Huang Xing out of the wall. Inadvertent contact with the fingers shuffling, playing cards when the ability to walk deliberately crash, are the source of the scourge. Data show that middle-aged women in the derailment in the ratio of up to 25 percent occurred on the mahjong table.
13. four-year-old woman, jealously guarding its availability encouraging people to old, self-pity Guying heart fragile. If the husband does not like to go home, it was suggested to be burned every day dinner, the dishes of his wine and his love for the correcting of the table. So for some time, any remaining men of conscience would change their mind.
14. four-year-old woman, if you suspect that derailed her husband do not press them too hard, and not unto the bed. If restore body and soul to save the soul of one of the best, if flying it to both learn from their mistakes. True to come to an end, s gone to the point, to quickly find a way to save himself.
15. four-year-old woman, but do not be bold, uninhibited, can be romantic but do not hang around. They should be passing you pass your landscape, you should also travel mileage. Do not settle old scores, not hanging file back. To the memory of the memory, remove the knockout. Let the four-year-old to become a beautiful landscape, rather than lust trap.
16. four-year-old woman, not long-tongued mouth, behind the irresponsible remarks of others, do not chatter, the husband of the eardrum puncture. A survey shows that, like the four-year-old woman nagging the divorce rate is 1.5 times that do not like nagging. The nagging reduced by half, to reduce the double tone, in exchange for a more harmonious marriage and family, of which the secret you a try at a glance.
17. four-year-old woman, rich in mind, mature in wisdom. To be comfortable with this age, not to the past of melancholy, and need for future confusion. Spring to autumn, blossom, somewhere already arranged. Women take a good forty books like the back roads close, and the play ended, will give the students more beauty and texture.
18. four-year-old woman, as little as possible liver injury flare up, to be tolerant of others, to a degree of modesty.
wrote four-year-old man's advice
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1. Four-year-old man, if not married, do not end up with. Whether you are a bachelor or multiple failures, your mind and body has come to an unhealthy extent, then unhealthy to other people that are irresponsible. If we can do ascetic, walk alone, can live comfortable.
2. Four-year-old man paul smith kids, if nothing, it could become. Ten years of education, 21 years of community, which did not point out the movement to the whole, do not make things difficult for himself. Of course, there are also good for nothing worthless living law: good absorption of the pumping two little smoke, but good microphone two small wine, gambling playing the two small cards, lecherous look at two small dishes. Lower target, settle mind, the days are still able to live in comfortably.
3. Four-year-old man, if you have not been to K room or sauna, the best time to go to one. If there is beauty, this wine is still Zuohuaibuluan, then you really reached middle age level. Middle age is a high degree, is a hierarchy, of which I was forty wonderful to be with you again thin to have been.
4. Four-year-old man, do not like two or three years old as, looked straight ahead, staring parts exposed women dress. Even though my heart undulating waves, but also pay attention to the image of decency. Evil, as if not to the best strabismus.
5. Four-year-old man, if you did not live happy, it is estimated that this does not make happy to the coffin gone. To relax the mind, the size of achievement has nothing to do with money, whether landscape without history. Remember: mortal beings, coming and going, not who can disdain for the world, of which there is life, there is transportation. Walk, passing, but do not bear a grudge, not cynical.
6. Four-year-old man, had achieved one or two things very easy, nothing had been made more difficult. For those who though nothing was too late, examples of ancient times but in good time, across things everywhere. As long as still believe in yourself and go on is worth a go.
7. Four-year-old man, do not build their own mess. Tunbuxiachui and belly bulge is not a four-year-old man's patent. Make some time to properly exercise about, such as playing baseball, a run on the physical and mental aging can play a positive role.
8. Four-year-old man, an officer does not collapse to be honest, in business to pay tax law, and workers should not take the hand disorder. Second, the three-year-old guilty, what kind of mistake can turn over, start over, four-year-old may come second slip to fall boundless sea of bitterness, beyond resurrection.
9. Four-year-old man, should do more than filial piety, cause no matter how large, no matter how busy the work should take some time to accompany the old people to eat dinner, chat, the spirit of the fine Chinese tradition, but also passed a family tradition of mutual love, to the younger set an example. Remember: how you treat your parents, your offspring will be how to treat you.
10. Four-year-old man, living in a moment of changing the rule is unknown in the great contrast between the era; in a vain before the village shop in vain after the age of bear psychological and physiological changes will inevitably have a lot of double anxiety and worry. To focus on the heart practice, to identify the non-choice, to know how to take care of themselves.
11. Four-year-old man, even if the money to outrageous proportions, what is not going to nurturing mistress Xiaomi. No matter who conquered whom, eventually below the belt are money. And although there is no money this thing legs, but legs and run as fast. In addition, in this day and age, as long as you stand next to a bright and beautiful than your wife is not your wife you will become wretched woman up, in others it seems that this is not the right color of money and sex trade transactions.
12. Four-year-old man, most of them have a father, preferably one or two wonderful life story to share with your children. These stories do not need earth-shattering, Guiku God weep, but let your children know they have a less vulgar father, who is not unusual blood flowing. This belief in their future life which will play a crucial role.
13. Four-year-old man several times to take part in the funeral. So far life has been about to more than half in the middle of the first visit to what end can allow himself to eliminate the fear, driving day to day of paralysis, to be more grateful for life, grateful for life, grateful for years.
14. Four-year-old man, the best medical examination twice a year. Medical and life insurance to buy at least one of each, to be proactive to do arrangements for his wife and children. Four-year-old man is the high incidence of the disease, unfortunately, necessary in case the first step, at least give people the impression of a pro-exhortations and hope.
15. Four-year-old man, to stay away from two-year-old girl, no matter how lovely she was, no matter how much she moths. She is still peaches and plums for Love, and you know which should be destiny, and know right from wrong. If you truly happy, do not give her a muddy bumpy, abnormal hard way.
16. Four-year-old man, have a shoulder to afford to carry wind and rain, to afford the burden of life. Even Zaikuzailei, but also to his wife a warm blankets, give children a safe haven, the family does not regret a commitment.
17. Four-year-old man, you should read some of the Dharma, a book like the Bible. To understand this mysterious than the mighty dead; to comprehend, this life cycle again and again; to see that Red Dust behind the cause and effect; to fear, a pair of mysterious eyes, always watching us.
18. Four-year-old man, even if the do not be afraid to forty. If you hit the age of 80 after the sarcasm, the teacher's words hit back with Wang Shuo dripping to do most: what you cow B, not to the young it? I have been young before, what can you too old?
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forty later came to understand: a friend is like a fish in water, deep water layer and shallow layer of fish will never go together; poor and rich, government and people, roots and dignitaries are unlikely to become a true friend, Because of their different perception of life, the key is that they treat the natural world and the heart are different. Even the rich and the rich, officers and officials, dignitaries and dignitaries will not become a true friend. Because of interest, there is a difference, there are trade-offs, there are the severity, there are concerns, to separate the rank or grade, the heart of conflicts of interests on earth deceived the truth, so there will not be a true friend and brother.
; forty later came to understand: youth young people envy, but even more mature, deep flavor. Look just like the young woman is no longer beautiful, more attention to mature, serene, natural and clear; more attention to the woman's mind, generosity, wisdom and generosity; more attention to the stable mature content and behind the occasional feminine.
forty later came to understand: to sincerely thank the people waiting for your life, because he is a haven of your life; to smile and face the once hated people, because he let you stronger; sincere thanks once loved, because he let you know how to love; to thank those who betray you, if not him, you will not understand the world; have you secretly like who wish him to be really happy, because you like him, hope he is happy; of trusted people, to take along with him, life never quite found a few sincere friends or real friends.
forty later came to understand: a man's emotions do not like to be controlled by a woman, especially not like to be, calculating woman of the control, which not only lose self-esteem also distorted soul. They need peace to be heart to heart communication. Feeling there is no distinction, much less control and mastery, emotional heart is a natural flow, and the pursuit of deliberate control there will not be the true meaning of truth. Earth, sincere emotion, need spiritual understanding, or even need to go with the flow of spiritual communication.
forty later came to understand: what the world is both complex and simple, you simply, the world is simple. Live smart, brilliant must bear the pain, everything has two sides or faces of herve leger for sale, right and wrong sometimes really difficult to say clearly, you like, it is possible that other people hate and despise of. Natural world and not to the will of your own development or destruction.
forty later came to understand: the happiness index, depends entirely on the state of mind. Spend months and years of delicacy and Gongchoujiaocuo not necessarily bring the mind at ease, in dealing and hypocrisy, the final result may be more and more souls, puffed up with pride and despair are the tragedy of life is much better than plain water and wanton Happy.
forty later came to understand: the whole life, do not worry about a few more heterosexual friends, it is your life and downs of the notes and wonderful chapter. But the treatment of heterosexual friends, it should be a little more love and less greedy, a little more understanding and less demanding. Placed in the emotional space of freedom, generosity to others is the generosity of their own; generosity of feeling, is the generosity of soul. Feelings to each other do not have to carry a burden, let the sun shine and the comfort and warmth of life has always been mutual affection.
forty later came to understand: family, friendship and even love, in fact, not many get. Spare time to think quietly, live for decades, in the end how many truly reliable buddy and confidant. Do not own so-called status, or official can control the angle of view and distinguish between friends, these so-called friends, perhaps the least reliable 'friend'! In addition to work, people have a more extensive living space, work and jobs are not the only life. As the saying goes: Life was a confidant enough. May be thought of later, not even a friend, how to desolate soul. Should always reflect on their own, treat others is really you? Tolerant, generous some, love some of it, the truth for the truth, this is man's fundamental.
forty later came to understand: his wife or the husband, has long been innocuous, even unbearable. But the years had to integrate with each other together. Even if difficult, then difficult to tolerate, but also part of life. May not cherish the time together, if the difference between regret and will find hard to leave.
forty later came to understand: the original in every possible way to take care of the child and spoiled, not only of our own to become a burden, but also the lives of children can not afford to delay very backbone. Small, afraid that they suffer, they suffer fear, afraid of them wind and rain, for fear they have too much ...... fear. When they grow up, we are still afraid to be responsible for our original deep sorrow and pain, Whose Fault? Do not experience wind and rain, how rainbow, words that are true!
forty later came to understand: We who can not win the race and time burberry flip flops, forties people, feeling a lot. Indifferent to the face of all peace, live from me, and live self-confidence, the want of thought, to do to do, love yourself, but also to love others. Anytime, anywhere, with special treasure fate, whether it is passing through your life, or long-term friends are wonderful memories of a lifetime. 'Crowd in a rare few true friends, the love you do not care'! Do not wait until powerless when we come to reveal a lifetime of regret and remorse of the memory.
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